Just like the rest of your profile, your first date suggestions should reflect who you are hoping to be in a relationship. What you actually like to do for fun should take priority over ideas that feel like the cool thing to do. For example, instead of asking your date out for drinks just because you thought of it first, you might reflect on what you'd actually like to experience with a new person. Is there a free event in your city you haven't been to yet? Outdoor movies, community festivals, and concerts have the makings for a memorable night where you can make your own rules.
Psychologist Monica Johnson told Bumble, "You don't necessarily have to reinvent the wheel on the first date. I usually like for people to have a rotation of things that they feel comfortable doing on a first date so that things don't feel stale." It may also be fun to say that you're open to spontaneity and taking your date to multiple locations, like a bookstore after grabbing coffee or checking out a local art gallery.
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